Hi em, well i havent been updating my blog for quite a while, cos i was kinda busy and lazy, ya noe…sorry bout thatt!!!
Im writing, because, well, this few weeks, a lot has happened. Most of them are not very good things….
as u can see, my title is saying, my best friend, to my baddest friend.
There is this friend, her name is LY, as i dont think i want to say her real name okay. she was my best friend, I thought she was quite good a person, the only thing is that, sometimes, she likes to call people names for nothing(i dont know why either) , even my other friend(YQ), said that she could hear LY say the word ‘suck’ for at least 5 times a day, so, sometimes i think shes kinda irritating….But still0, i treat her as my best fren…
So we called each other on the phone almost every night, and talked happily. We chat and laughed about everything, until one day, I heard from her other good good fren that she was lying about somethings…for example, I told LY some of my big secrets and she promised me that she wont tell anyone, but then i heard from her good good fren that LY told her everything about me, which she promised not to tell, so the next weekend, I asked LY on the msn, whether she got tell anyone about my secrets, she said NO when she already told her good good fren everything, In fact, her good good fren didnt like LY too, she was just tolerating..there was also another time when LY lied, it’s just that im too lazy to type all the things out..(sorry bout that!) AND SO, THIS PROVES THAT SHE’S A LIAR.
On the previous paragraph, i told you that i asked LY whether she kept the secrets on msn right? so when she said she didnt tell anyone the secrets, i scolded her. So she got angry and kept scolding my vulgarities to, some are, for example, u stupid idiot! shut ur mouth lah! or, F*** U TO HELL. something like that.
Did I tell u that the secrets I told her is about who i like in class? so she got so angry that, for example, i like ABC(just a nickname, so that i dont really have to tell who I like..), and then, on msn, she told ABC that I like him, so isnt she, kinda like a betrayer or what? She is just to much..SHE BETRAYED ME< DIDNT SHE?
plus, she is damn annoying, or irritating, i should say. she just complains about everything…Im sick of her complaints that she says to me like, every day! I REALLY HATE HER U NOE?
and, almost all the girls in my class didnt like her, one simple reason is, she is irritating, or annoying. So, in class she doesnt really have a lot of frens, she has only about 3 or 4 frens, if im not wrong, and i heard from other people that her only frens in class didnt like her too, they are just tolerating, i think its because they didnt want to lose any frens, but if i were them, i will think that LY is not even worth to be my fren, yes, i may sound a bit bad by saying that but i think its true!
Overall, i think that the main reason she is ‘not so good’ is because she was spoilt, cos its like, she get whatever she wants, she plays the computer for hours everyday, she get a lot of pocket money, she goes to the playground every single day and everytime she play at the playground, she will play for at least 2 hours, so, i think she must have been spoilt.
Sometimes, i dont know what I should do, should i just ignore her? Or should i tell her that she is wrong to do this or that? I did try to tell her that its not right to do this or that, but she wont listen, so perhaps, theres nothing i can do.
But, if you noe what to do in this situation, do tell me! thanks a lot~!
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2 Comments
but who is the s…nvm
haha… its not as bad la…
ppl has their “strange” attitude, behaviors, characters… which if we tries to understand, its not as bad as you think… by standing on their point-of-views or step in their shoes… you’ll know…
well… maybe as u said, she’s spoilt… but that doesnt mean she’s bad or evil… its just she didnt have a good discipline from young…
she’s all vulgar the whole of herself… but that doesn’t mean she really mean saying those vulgars… its just a way of expressing herself~… just like somebody will laugh when angry… its strange, but its their way of expressing… so, when we try to understand that person, we’ll know when he/she laughs means angry…
so, she’s just toooo used to vulgars… so she say vulgar as regular as we says “aiyo~”, “walao~”, “damn”, and watever… the difference is only, we use words that’s nicer than hers… that’s all…
just go ask her why she told others about u which she “not seriously” promised not to~…
maybe she’s just way tooo talkative.. talkative ppl cant keep secrets… its not really what they can control~… so, when u know she’s cant control to keep secrets… just dont tell her secrets! its that simple…
we all need to learn how to communicate with ppl… not asking ppl to suit your way, but to learn how to suit ppl’s way and co-operate…
try again~…